| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 37 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 03/07/1970 |
| Date of Death | 19/11/2007 |
| Visitors | 2,750 since 25/01/2008 |
| Creator |
simon mark kemp
19/11/2007
37
MY SON
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sunderland
my son simon had two sisters and two brothers,a stepfather,
we all loved him very much.
we had not seen simon for a few days and alarms bells rang in my head when a phone call came to say
he had not turned up for an apointment,my husband and i went to his home and could not get into his
home in the end we had to contact the police,they had to break down the door in the end and he was
found lying on his sitting room floor,i do not remember very much about that night it is a night i
could not go though again,my son was only 37 and i miss him so much,we do not know yet why he died
we have to wait for test results,parents are not surposed to bury there own kids and the pain is so
bad.when sad things like this happens you think you are all alone but after reading so many sad
losses on gone to soon you know you are not alone,i only hope that i can learn to live with my
sorrow and come to terms with it,simon was my son and i loved him then and still do.
god bless you simon love mam xxxxx
so much to live for
so much to do
so many dreams
then god took you
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nearly 5 months have gone simon and the pain of losing you is still strong i go to see you where you
lie resting in your sleep,i hope you can here my voice when i talk to you,i miss you so much son,i
hope you are at peace,love you always mam and stepdad geordie x sisters julie and karen x brothers
anthony and marc.xxx
SIMON MARK KEMP
its is 7mths since my son died and we now know how,it has not made is any easier in fact it hurts
more,his head stone is going up at the end of this week (20/6/08)it will be the last thing i can do
for my son apart from loving and missing him each and ever day,i wish i had a wish and my wish would
be come back to me simon and let god take me.
sleep simon sleep be there waiting for me please mam xxxxxx
hi simon mam here,as i sit and write this for you i am trying so hard to be brave,tomorrow the 19th
of nov 2008 is one year since that terrible day you went to sleep and left me and your brothers and
sisters,its going to be a very hard day for us all,if you can hear me son remember how much you are
loved and missed very much,love you always mam xxxxx
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When somebody dies, a cloud turns into an angel and flies up to tell God to put another flower on a
pillow. A bird gives the message back to the world and sings a silent prayer that makes the rain
cry. People disappear, but they never really go away. The spirits up there put the sun to bed, wake
up the grass, and spin the Earth in dizzy circles. Sometimes you can see them dancing in a cloud
during the daytime when they're supposed to be sleeping. They paint the rainbows and also the
sunsets and make waves splash and tug at the tide. They toss shooting stars and listen to wishes.
And when they sing wind songs, they whisper to us, "Don't miss me too much. The view is nice, and
I'm doing just fine.x
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we are in the 17th month of lossing simon and the pain is still so bad,there is not a single day
goes by when i dont think of him,i go to see him two times a week to take him fresh flowers and
sometimes i talk out loud to him or speak to him in my mind,i hope he hear me,mothers day night was
so lovely for me because for the first time he was in my dream,he did not speak to me just stood
behind me,simon was never a big talker but the next day even though i was sad to wake up from the
dream all day i felt a little better.i know for a fact that i will never get over losing simon.
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hi son,i am not doing very well coping with losing you,i am trying i really am but its so hard,when
you left us a big part of my heart went with you,people tell me it gets better in time but that is
impossible
how can a mother out live her child and go on with her life as if they never where here, i wish i
was good at words son then i could write down how i really feel,you where never a big talker where
you,anthony is not doing very well simon,he needs to come to see you more,so does marc i cannot get
them to talk about you,they need too dont they,help them will you,julie and karen miss you as well
but they chat about you when i need them too,i know it hurts them but i think i would go crazy if
none of them talked about you.i still cant understand why you left us simon,there are a lot of
things that i would like to know but i will never find out,if only i had known you where in trouble
i could have been with you instead of you being alone,why did i not sense something was wrong until
it was to late,i am sorry son i should have been with you,i will never forgive myself for letting
you be on your own.--never forget that i love you and i always will,you might not be here with me in
body but i still have 5 kids,love you always mam xxxxxxx
EVERY PARENTS DREAD
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We all grieve at some time in our life,
Maybe it’s for a parent, grandparent, a husband or wife,
Our hearts are filled with much sorrow and pain,
Life is unfair, and nothing seems the same.
It could be a sister or a brother too,
Or even a friend who is close to you,
Memories of your loved one are so new and so clear,
You dream of the day you can hold them near.
You live your life with good days and bad,
Some of them happy, some of them sad,
You think of the good times and remember with love,
Your dear departed loved one up in heaven above.
Then comes the grief that is impossible to bear,
It’s the loss of a child, which we can’t compare,
You don’t know where to go for the comfort you yearn,
The only comfort for you , is for your Child's safe return.
For these parents time does not heal,
They live a life that is not real
Their hearts are empty!!! Yet they feel like lead,
They have been given the news of every parents dread.
They have been told their child has gone,
Please don’t tell them they must move on.
Copyright© Jackie Longworth
A MOTHER'S LETTER
I'm a mother blessed like no other
You chose me from all others
As I held you in my arms
I promised you protection from all harm
I did my best as I promised I would
Did all the things that a parent should
Little was I prepared that fateful day
When death came calling and took you away
Nothing in all my power could I do
Nothing to stop death from taking you
As parents we never think of losing our child
Taking for granted they're here for all while
I recall my pain as you entered this world
Now I bear the pain as you left our world
A mother's bond to her child is great
Let there be no mistake
I'm proud to have been your mother
So glad you chose me instead of another
My love to you and forever it will be
Until the day we're together we'll be
Written by Doyle Alldredge
love mam xx
Sent with love xx
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If roses grown in heaven
Lord, please pick a bunch for me.
Place them in simon's arms
and tell him they’re from me.
Tell him that we love and miss him
and when he turns to smile,
Place a kiss upon his cheek
and hold him for a while.
Remembering him is easy,
we do it every day.
But there’s an aching in our hearts
that will never go away.
love you son xxx
CANNOT HIDE.......
I SEE YOU IN THE SUNSHINE I SEE YOU IN THE RAIN
WHERE EVER YOU I SEE I CANNOT EASE THE PAIN
FOR YOU A FOREVER GONE NO LONGER WITH ME
IT IS JUST NOT THE WAY LIFE SHOULD BE
YOU WERE TAKEN SO FAR AWAY FROM ME
I STILL DO NOT UNDERSTAND AS YOU CAN SEE
WHENEVER I LOOK AT YOUR PICTURE A SEE YOUR FACE
I STILL LONG SO MUCH FOR YOUR STRONG EMBRACE
TO SAY THE WORDS I LOVE YOU MUM I MISS YOU TOO
THOUGH I WILL NEVER HEAR THOSE WORD AGAIN FROM YOU
I AM SO SORRY MY SON THIS IS JUST DOES NOT SEEM RIGHT
YOU WERE NEVER ONE TO LOSE ALWAYS THE ONE TO FIGHT
I KNOW YOU ARE NOT SUFFERING NO HEARTBREAK OR PAIN
BUT FOR ME LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN
THOUGH I CARRY ON EACH DAY WITHOUT YOU BY MY SIDE
MY PAIN, HURT AND TEARS I CAN
Son fly away now.
Today my son said to me
Mum why am i not here with you
I said son you must have been tired
Thats why the lord took you
But mum i want to be at home
Not here in this new place
I said son you must be brave now
Lets see a smile on your face
As long as you say so mum
Then thats fine and ok with me
I said son fly away now my love
Your an angel in heaven you see
Copyright© Sharon Wheeler
17TH APRIL 2009
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to my son simon xxxx
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We may no longer be together
As you're not here with me anymore
But I still feel you deep in my heart
Just the same as it was before.
When I gaze up at Heaven to you
And you look down on me
Our smiles light up the whole sky
For all of Heaven and Earth to see.
Knowing that you are at peace
Brings comfort to my sad heart
And I know God will take care of you
Now that we are apart.
Until we are together again
And sharing our heavenly home
I will always have my Angel in Heaven
Smiling down on me, and never be alone...
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simon my son x
Do you make them laugh in Heaven,
does your smile bring them good cheer?
Do you make the sun shine brighter,
like you did when you were here?
The very mention of your name,
the memories of your smile,
The little things you said and did,
are with us all the while.
You meant so very much to us,
there’s nothing left to say,
Except that without you here
there is no perfect day.
For no-one knows the heartache,
that lies behind our smiles,
No-one knows how many times
we have broken down & cried.
We want to tell you something
so there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
but so hard to be without.
We hold you close within our hearts,
and there you shall remain.
To walk with us throughout our lives,
until we meet again.
SIMON MY SON X
part of me is missing
It hurts so deep inside,
I can't get over losing you
Since the day you left my side
A part of me is missing
And we'll always be apart,
But that won't stop the love I feel
Deep within my heart.
A part of me is missing
Its something I can't replace,
Your wicked sense of humour
And that smile upon your face.
A part of me is missing
It keeps me feeling sad,
You were such a special son
The best I could of had.
A part of me is missing
And there is nothing I can do,
The part of me that's missing
My precious son is you..
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SLEEP TIGHT SIMON,I MISS YOU SO MUCH,LOVE MAM XXX
love mam xxx
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~ My heart is truly broken ~
~ My tears they fall like rain ~
~ I wish i could see you one more time ~
~ To ease this awful pain ~
~ I know that you're in heaven ~
~ And in heaven you shall remain ~
~ A very special angel ~
~ Until we meet again ~ xXx•.♥.•°.°•.♥. xXx
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![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/f9f93da0b8128fd8db4a12e378bb265b/shappy-birthday---balloons.jpg ""HAPPY BIRTHDAY OUR SWEET SIMON"
"HAPPY 39TH BIRTHDAY" SIMON YOU ARE
GREATLY MISSED AND LOVED..
LOVE AND MISS YOU BRO ANTH AND LEE
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/0d9a0c17719a0988f217dad7490c6472/schocolate-rabbit.jpg ""BLESSED EASTER SIMON"
MAM SAID THAT YOU ALWAYS LOVED YOUR CHOCOLATE EASTER BUNNIES SO HERE IS ONE FROM ANTH..LOVE YOU BRO AND MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/56080cec4480360fe9ea824bbb6da33b/sshamrock.jpg ""HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY" SIMON LOL I GUESS BY NOW YOU KNOW THAT ANTH HAS PICKED HIMSELF AN "IRISH LASS" LOL
BLESSINGS XOXOXO LEE")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/aadef49144f97de1bfcf6b3e3fbd6cff/scancer-1.jpg "OPPS SORRY SIMON I PLACED THE WRONG GIFT INTO THE WRONG MESSAGE LOL THIS IS YOUR BIRTH SIGN "CANCER" THE OTHER ONE HAD PINK FLOWERS I HOPE THAT YOU DONT MIND I TRULY LOVE PINK ROSES LOL THOUGHT YOU MIGHT LIKE THEM TOO..I WILL STOP BY AGAIN SOON SLEEP WITH THE ANGELS OUR SWEET SIMON..XOXO..LEE..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/3693acff10b58a44cb928b605f31d2ac/scarnation-bouquet.jpg "GOOD MORNING SIMON JUST THOUGHT I WOULD STOP BY AND SAY HELLO AND LEAVE THIS GIFT ITS YOUR BIRTH SIGN "CANCER" THE GENTLE WARM CARING AND A LOVE OF FAMILY AND HOME..MAM HAS SHARED WITH ME WHAT KIND OF MAN YOU WERE BRO AND YOU WERE TRUE TO YOUR SIGN..I WISH WE COULD HAVE MET FOR YOU ARE SO LOVED BY ALL OF THE FAMILY I JUST KNOW WE WOULD HAVE BEEN GOOD FREINDS AS WELL..TAKE CARE DEAR SIMON AND PLEASE WATCH OVER OUR ANTH HE TOO IS A WONDERFUL MAN AS YOU WERE..TALK TO YOU IN THE MORNING..XOXOXO..LEE..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/8ac0a662ff8114698fc97bdf9f24a664/schocolate-heart.jpg "HI SIMON ANTH AND I WISH YOU A "HAPPY VALENTINES DAY" IN YOUR SPECIAL GARDEN OF NON ENDING LOVE..ANTH MISSES YOU ALOT PLEASE WATCH OVER HIM AND PROTECT..XOXOXO..ANTH N LEE..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/2e1080ec44bef327dccfd7a0d0ee0bf5/sbunch-of-roses.jpg ""HAPPY VALENTINES DAY" MY SWEET SIMON MISS YOU SO MUCH LOVE YOU ALWAYS MAM XXXX..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/55f53f577d5d9c6733d3bf834c0f06bd/sbox-of-chocolates.jpg ""HAPPY VALENTINES DAY" SON LOVE MAM....")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/ec0bb1fe164d2a6d01f0f3bf1e447fd7/sstars.jpg "YOU ARE A "BRIGHT STAR" NOW DEAR SIMON SHINING OH SO BRIGHT OVER MAM,ANTH,JULIE,MARC,KAREN,GORGIE AND PLEASE SHINE A LITTLE BRIGHTNESS OVER ANTH AND I..LOVE FROM ANTH N LEE....")
