| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 37 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 03/07/1970 |
| Date of Death | 19/11/2007 |
| Visitors | 2,748 since 25/01/2008 |
| Creator |
simon mark kemp
19/11/2007
37
MY SON
painter
sunderland
my son simon had two sisters and two brothers,a stepfather,
we all loved him very much.
we had not seen simon for a few days and alarms bells rang in my head when a phone call came to say
he had not turned up for an apointment,my husband and i went to his home and could not get into his
home in the end we had to contact the police,they had to break down the door in the end and he was
found lying on his sitting room floor,i do not remember very much about that night it is a night i
could not go though again,my son was only 37 and i miss him so much,we do not know yet why he died
we have to wait for test results,parents are not surposed to bury there own kids and the pain is so
bad.when sad things like this happens you think you are all alone but after reading so many sad
losses on gone to soon you know you are not alone,i only hope that i can learn to live with my
sorrow and come to terms with it,simon was my son and i loved him then and still do.
god bless you simon love mam xxxxx
so much to live for
so much to do
so many dreams
then god took you
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nearly 5 months have gone simon and the pain of losing you is still strong i go to see you where you
lie resting in your sleep,i hope you can here my voice when i talk to you,i miss you so much son,i
hope you are at peace,love you always mam and stepdad geordie x sisters julie and karen x brothers
anthony and marc.xxx
SIMON MARK KEMP
its is 7mths since my son died and we now know how,it has not made is any easier in fact it hurts
more,his head stone is going up at the end of this week (20/6/08)it will be the last thing i can do
for my son apart from loving and missing him each and ever day,i wish i had a wish and my wish would
be come back to me simon and let god take me.
sleep simon sleep be there waiting for me please mam xxxxxx
hi simon mam here,as i sit and write this for you i am trying so hard to be brave,tomorrow the 19th
of nov 2008 is one year since that terrible day you went to sleep and left me and your brothers and
sisters,its going to be a very hard day for us all,if you can hear me son remember how much you are
loved and missed very much,love you always mam xxxxx
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When somebody dies, a cloud turns into an angel and flies up to tell God to put another flower on a
pillow. A bird gives the message back to the world and sings a silent prayer that makes the rain
cry. People disappear, but they never really go away. The spirits up there put the sun to bed, wake
up the grass, and spin the Earth in dizzy circles. Sometimes you can see them dancing in a cloud
during the daytime when they're supposed to be sleeping. They paint the rainbows and also the
sunsets and make waves splash and tug at the tide. They toss shooting stars and listen to wishes.
And when they sing wind songs, they whisper to us, "Don't miss me too much. The view is nice, and
I'm doing just fine.x
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we are in the 17th month of lossing simon and the pain is still so bad,there is not a single day
goes by when i dont think of him,i go to see him two times a week to take him fresh flowers and
sometimes i talk out loud to him or speak to him in my mind,i hope he hear me,mothers day night was
so lovely for me because for the first time he was in my dream,he did not speak to me just stood
behind me,simon was never a big talker but the next day even though i was sad to wake up from the
dream all day i felt a little better.i know for a fact that i will never get over losing simon.
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hi son,i am not doing very well coping with losing you,i am trying i really am but its so hard,when
you left us a big part of my heart went with you,people tell me it gets better in time but that is
impossible
how can a mother out live her child and go on with her life as if they never where here, i wish i
was good at words son then i could write down how i really feel,you where never a big talker where
you,anthony is not doing very well simon,he needs to come to see you more,so does marc i cannot get
them to talk about you,they need too dont they,help them will you,julie and karen miss you as well
but they chat about you when i need them too,i know it hurts them but i think i would go crazy if
none of them talked about you.i still cant understand why you left us simon,there are a lot of
things that i would like to know but i will never find out,if only i had known you where in trouble
i could have been with you instead of you being alone,why did i not sense something was wrong until
it was to late,i am sorry son i should have been with you,i will never forgive myself for letting
you be on your own.--never forget that i love you and i always will,you might not be here with me in
body but i still have 5 kids,love you always mam xxxxxxx
Hugs for Simon xxxx
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ME AND YOU.......
WHILE I SIT HERE I THINK OF YOU
WAS THERE ANYTHING MORE I COULD DO
THE QUESTIONS IN MY MIND NEVER END
THERE ARE NO ANSWERS I CANNOT PRETEND
THAT I DO NOT FEEL ANGRY OR FEEL THE PAIN
KNOWING I WILL NEVER SEE MY BEAUTIFUL SON AGAIN
I KNOW WE USED TO FIGHT SOME TIMES TOO
THAT WAS JUST HOW WE WERE ME AND YOU
EVEN THOUGH WE WE LOVED EACH OTHER SO MUCH
I MISS YOUR SMILE AND ALSO YOUR TOUCH
HAPPY MEMOMORIES I TRY TO FORCE INTO MY MIND
THOUGH ALL OF MY DREAMS ARE OF ANOTHER KIND
YES ANOTHER NIGHTMARE DID COME TRUE
THAT WAS THE DAY THAT THERE WAS NO LONGER A YOU
FOR YOU HAD GONE DEATH STOOD IN YOUR PLACE
YOU ARE MY SON I CAN NEVER REPLACE.....
Written By Ros Roberts 2009
♥I Look At My Friends.♥
♥Then I Look At Me.♥
♥Without My Buddies Were Would I Be.?♥
♥My Friends♥
♥My Sisters♥
♥My Shadows♥
♥My World♥
♥Where Would I Be Without The Girls.?♥
♥Giggles&Tears.♥
♥Smiles&Laughs.♥
♥Late Night Texts&Photographs.♥
♥We,ll Be There Together Untill Are Last Day.♥
♥Best Girlies Forever Just Wont Fade Away..♥♥♥♥
♥ Send This To Those You Care About♥
♥ I Just Did ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
SOMEONE WHO CARES
As The Sun Came Up This Morning
I Watched You There Below
Your Hearts Seemed Oh So Heavy
But There’s Something You Should Know
I’m Not Gone So Don’t Worry
I’m Just A Step Ahead
And I’m With You Every Single Day
As You Rise Up From Your Bed
I Am The Sun That Warms You
I Am The Moon’s Soft Glow
I Am The Stars That Twinkle
And Light Your Path Below
So When At Times You Miss Me
Just Look For Me I’m There
For You Cannot Hide My Spirit
It Is With You Everywhere.
Anon
HI SON
SORRY I NEVER GOT TO COME TO SEE YOU TODAY,I WENT TO BARNARD CASTLE TODAY TO SEE OUR MARIE AND GO TO SEE YOUR NANA AND GRANDAD,I ALWAYS FEEL TERRIBLE WHEN I DONT GO TO SEE YOU AT THE WEEKENDS BUT YOU KNOW WHERE EVER I AM I THINK ABOUT YOU ALWAYS DONT YOU,OUR ANTH CAME WITH ME TODAY AND WE MEET UP WITH OUR ANDREW WE HAD A GOOD DAY,THE WEATHER WAS NICE AND MARIE AND ANDREW SEND THERE LOVE,I HOPE YOU ARE HAPPY SON,IS NANA AND GRANDAD OK,NEVER FORGET I LOVE AND MISS YOU,WE WILL SEE EACH OTHER ONE DAY,DONT FORGET TO BE THERE TO MEET ME,LOVE YOU LOTS MAM XXXXXXXXXX
OUR BROTHER
Day by day I think of you,
How can all of this be true?
I can't believe you're really gone,
I still can't accept it,
Even after so long.
Just the thought of you makes me cry,
I never even got the chance to say goodbye.
Every picture, every letter,
I don't know if it will ever get better.
I always smell your familiar scent,
It makes me think of all of the times we've spent.
I know we didn't always get along,
And every time we talked, it would always go wrong.
So many things I never got to say,
I never imagined you'd ever be so far away.
You were my brother,
And I loved you like no other.
In my heart you'll always be,
You’ll be my guide and help me see.
I'll never forget your soothing voice,
I would take your place if I had a choice.
But now I have to let you rest,
Although without you my world's a mess.
I miss you with all of my heart,
I wish we never had to part.
I know you're always by my side,
So now I guess this is my goodbye...
XXXXX
LOVE ANTHONY,KAREN,JULIE AND MARC XXX
miss you son
Oh will it ever go away
the hurt, the pain, the tears.
I don't think that it ever will
It just goes on for years.
Each day I think about you
the feelings come and go.
My stomach keeps turning upside down
and the tears they start to flow.
Why did you have to leave me
You were handsome, young and strong
I wish that God could send you back
here on earth where you belong.
Written by Jean Cavanagh 2009
LOVE TO YOU ALL,FROM SIMON XXX
Thankyou for loving me
Welcome to my special garden
The one made just for me
Its full of beautiful flowers
All growing so wild and free
Sit yourself down take a seat
On that bench you brought me today
Tell me whats been happening
Since the day that i went away
I feel good, when your by my side
I know you love me like before
And that you havent forgot me here
And your love is forever more
Thanks for the flowers you brought me
I can see them, though im sleeping here
I'm blessed in death as i was in life
That you will love me for many a year
Copyright© Sharon Wheeler
Have you ever lost someone you loved who was very dear to you?
One who you loved so much and miss them like I do,
Have you ever had a headache too painful to bear?
And shed those bitter tears that fall like the rain,
If you never had that feeling,
I'll pray you never do,
For when God takes the ones you love,
He takes a part of you.
For Pam xxx
I was chosen today
I'm learning to fly
the world took me away,
but please don't you cry
And I chose you today
to try and be strong
so please don't you cry
and don't say that I'm gone
When you're feeling alone
just remember our love,
I'm up near the stars
looking down from above.
Remember our love
In a moment you'll see
that I'm still here beside you
when you're thinking of me.
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![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/f9f93da0b8128fd8db4a12e378bb265b/shappy-birthday---balloons.jpg ""HAPPY BIRTHDAY OUR SWEET SIMON"
"HAPPY 39TH BIRTHDAY" SIMON YOU ARE
GREATLY MISSED AND LOVED..
LOVE AND MISS YOU BRO ANTH AND LEE
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/0d9a0c17719a0988f217dad7490c6472/schocolate-rabbit.jpg ""BLESSED EASTER SIMON"
MAM SAID THAT YOU ALWAYS LOVED YOUR CHOCOLATE EASTER BUNNIES SO HERE IS ONE FROM ANTH..LOVE YOU BRO AND MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/56080cec4480360fe9ea824bbb6da33b/sshamrock.jpg ""HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY" SIMON LOL I GUESS BY NOW YOU KNOW THAT ANTH HAS PICKED HIMSELF AN "IRISH LASS" LOL
BLESSINGS XOXOXO LEE")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/aadef49144f97de1bfcf6b3e3fbd6cff/scancer-1.jpg "OPPS SORRY SIMON I PLACED THE WRONG GIFT INTO THE WRONG MESSAGE LOL THIS IS YOUR BIRTH SIGN "CANCER" THE OTHER ONE HAD PINK FLOWERS I HOPE THAT YOU DONT MIND I TRULY LOVE PINK ROSES LOL THOUGHT YOU MIGHT LIKE THEM TOO..I WILL STOP BY AGAIN SOON SLEEP WITH THE ANGELS OUR SWEET SIMON..XOXO..LEE..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/3693acff10b58a44cb928b605f31d2ac/scarnation-bouquet.jpg "GOOD MORNING SIMON JUST THOUGHT I WOULD STOP BY AND SAY HELLO AND LEAVE THIS GIFT ITS YOUR BIRTH SIGN "CANCER" THE GENTLE WARM CARING AND A LOVE OF FAMILY AND HOME..MAM HAS SHARED WITH ME WHAT KIND OF MAN YOU WERE BRO AND YOU WERE TRUE TO YOUR SIGN..I WISH WE COULD HAVE MET FOR YOU ARE SO LOVED BY ALL OF THE FAMILY I JUST KNOW WE WOULD HAVE BEEN GOOD FREINDS AS WELL..TAKE CARE DEAR SIMON AND PLEASE WATCH OVER OUR ANTH HE TOO IS A WONDERFUL MAN AS YOU WERE..TALK TO YOU IN THE MORNING..XOXOXO..LEE..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/8ac0a662ff8114698fc97bdf9f24a664/schocolate-heart.jpg "HI SIMON ANTH AND I WISH YOU A "HAPPY VALENTINES DAY" IN YOUR SPECIAL GARDEN OF NON ENDING LOVE..ANTH MISSES YOU ALOT PLEASE WATCH OVER HIM AND PROTECT..XOXOXO..ANTH N LEE..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/2e1080ec44bef327dccfd7a0d0ee0bf5/sbunch-of-roses.jpg ""HAPPY VALENTINES DAY" MY SWEET SIMON MISS YOU SO MUCH LOVE YOU ALWAYS MAM XXXX..")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/55f53f577d5d9c6733d3bf834c0f06bd/sbox-of-chocolates.jpg ""HAPPY VALENTINES DAY" SON LOVE MAM....")
![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/ec0bb1fe164d2a6d01f0f3bf1e447fd7/sstars.jpg "YOU ARE A "BRIGHT STAR" NOW DEAR SIMON SHINING OH SO BRIGHT OVER MAM,ANTH,JULIE,MARC,KAREN,GORGIE AND PLEASE SHINE A LITTLE BRIGHTNESS OVER ANTH AND I..LOVE FROM ANTH N LEE....")
